Life Enhancement

Better for Both Partners
Control His Mind
Access Denied
Control His Orgasms
Control Your Happiness
Nothing Worth Doing Is Easy
Keep Calm and Lock ON
Chastity & Pleasure
Chastity & Service
Chastity Cages
Getting Him Locked

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Control His Orgasms
Now that his orgasms are yours, they can be finally be used wisely. Without the ability to masturbate, you have become his only hope of having an orgasm. By making sure he understands that unlocking will only occur when you decide, and that waiting for them is the whole idea, pleasing you becomes the focus of his sexual desires. When and if you do allow an orgasm, you can increase the psychological impact by supervising or stimulating the release in a setting that emphasizes your control and dominance. These events will become special to him, and serve to increase his association of you with his romantic and intimate desires. No matter which methods you use when you allow him to get off, your control over all aspects is what matters the most.

Masturbation Not Allowed
Male masturbation is certainly a natural animal behavior, but among rational humans it is also harmful to attentiveness, desire, and relationship strength. It is also absolutely not necessary for health or well being. By eliminating masturbation entirely, you make certain that every time he gets off he will be involved in an intimate moment with you of some kind. You also make certain that every time he gets off, he is either giving you pleasure, or submitting to your dominance in some way. If you don't eliminate his ability to choose to masturbate, chastity control and denial based training aren't really effective.

Not Allowed To Touch
Depending on the method you choose to allow orgasm, you may choose to allow your man to access his unlocked penis under your supervision. Another highly recommended strategy in orgasm control is total denial of access. This is not just for when you might allow an orgasm, but for anytime his chastity cage is removed. If he's good, you can simply tell him to keep his hands off, but for best results, make certain your man is fully restrained anytime the belt is removed, or at least his hands are bound, and conduct all stimulation, if any, yourself, effectively denying him any contact with his penis, fully actualizing your ownership of his 'manhood' and his pleasure.

Beg For It
Most women choose not to let their locked up men beg to be allowed to get off, but once you've decided to, it's always a good idea to suggest you might allow it if he begs you. When his climax approaches, it's also recommended you make him ask you permission to cum. If you'd prefer him to beg at that point as well, you shouldn't have much trouble getting him to!

Allowing Him To Ejaculate
Choosing his method of shooting off depends most of all on what will please you. You will probably also want to consider some other factors, such as how frequently you have been allowing him, how new he is to chastity control, and how much progress has chastity control made in training him to submit to you. Obviously, you need not always use the same method. It is also not necessarily better to use the more advanced or humiliating methods, although it would certainly benefit your overall training of him. The controlled orgasm methods listed here are in order from least to most advanced.

Orgasmic Ejaculations
Supervised Masturbation
Manual Stimulation
Using Restraint
Dominating His Orgasm
Non-Orgasmic Ejaculations
Locked Stimulation

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